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My husband never stops working, but he won’t discuss it. Should I leave him?

You really need to find a way to talk about this and explore the underlying issues – for both of you

The Guardian - UK · Sep 27

Our children may be surprised by what’s in our will – should we tell them now?

You don’t have to reveal the contents, but I’ve seen families torn apart by unexpected inheritance plans

The Guardian - UK · Sep 20

Talk less, listen more and six other top tips on giving good advice

Are you someone who thinks they have all the answers? Is your experience relevant here? Experts on the questions to ask yourself before giving advice

The Guardian - UK · Sep 18

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My sister-in-law has published an unfair memoir. Should we cut her off?

She should have been much more careful, but everyone has their own version of the ‘truth’. Does your partner want a reconciliation?

The Guardian - UK · Sep 13

I’ve always supported my dysfunctional siblings, but I’ve had enough. How can I divorce myself?

You feel guilty because you’ve done ‘better’ in life, but you can’t rescue them. Listen to your resentment and learn to let go

The Guardian - UK · Sep 6

I’ve got feelings for a teacher at my children’s school. What should I do?

Crushes can feel freeing because they operate outside everyday life, but does that mean you should act on them?

The Guardian - UK · Aug 30

A childhood sexual abuse allegation has rocked our family – what should we do?

Make the victim feel safe and able to talk at their own pace, and consider any danger the perpetrator currently presents to younger members of the family

The Guardian - UK · Aug 23

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I haven’t dated for years and want to try again. How do I prepare for the storm?

Do you really want to date, or do you just feel you should? Be kind to yourself, and maybe try real-world dating and avoid the apps for now

The Guardian - UK · Aug 16

My husband won’t make any effort to please me in bed

This may be more to do with ageing than a lack of love. Talk about it – hopefully you can work out a new repertoire together

The Guardian - UK · Aug 9

My partner’s mother dominates him and it makes me feel helpless

You are stepping into a family system with its own history and loyalties; try to consider how you might set boundaries without rejecting his mum

The Guardian - UK · Jul 26

I ghosted a problematic friend. Now I feel terrible, but also relieved

Your friend gave you little choice but to end your relationship. You were right to prioritise your own wellbeing

The Guardian - UK · Jul 19

My husband no longer desires me, but engaging an escort has complicated things

You and your husband need to have a frank discussion and decide whether you want to negotiate the next stage of life together or apart

The Guardian - UK · Jul 12

How do I cope with my grief and guilt after losing my husband?

You are dealing with a lot right now. Lean on loved ones, and try not to look too far ahead

The Guardian - UK · Jul 5

Consider the parents caring for adult children not in work or education

Letter: One reader was surprised by how many people responding to Annalisa Barbieri’s advice column equate successful parenting with independence

The Guardian - UK · Jul 3

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The Guardian - UK · Jun 28

I wish my son wanted to spend more time with me

He seems to feel under pressure because he is your only child. Could you be overcompensating for your initial reluctance to have children?

The Guardian - UK · Jun 21

I can’t afford a tutor to help my daughter get into grammar school. Will she still fulfil her potential?

You may be projecting your own school experience on to your daughter, but her needs are different and she has you to support her

The Guardian - UK · Jun 7

‘My partner’s mum is cruel towards him and I worry how she’ll be with our future kids’

She sounds awful and I would absolutely minimise her contact with any children you do have unless she radically changes

The Guardian - UK · May 31

I feel a lot of affection for a friend at work – could I be in love?

Would you want this to become sexual? If the answer is yes, then think about what might be holding you back

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The Guardian - UK · May 24

I’m worried my colleague is lying about having cancer

The real question isn’t whether you are actually being lied to, but why ‘tall tales’ land so heavily with you

The Guardian - UK · May 17

My mum demands I take her on holiday – but favours my brother in her will

Your mother expects to be taken on holiday and your siblings aren’t pulling their weight, so you’re right to be angry as things clearly aren’t fair

The Guardian - UK · May 10

My husband’s weight loss is triggering my eating disorders. What can I do?

You must look after your own mental health. A therapist could provide a safe space to discuss your feelings

The Guardian - UK · May 3

My mother is addicted to gaming and emotionally unavailable. What should I do?

Her actions may be numbing pain she feels in other areas of her life, so you must approach the issue thoughtfully

The Guardian - UK · Apr 26

I’m out of a job after issues at the schools where I worked. Is it my fault?

It feels as if your work and your identity are fused. You’ll get through this, but you may have to use this time to consider other careers

The Guardian - UK · Apr 19

I was bullied when I was young and now find it very hard to make friends

Your history of being picked on at school has a lot do with your feelings of being ‘faulty’. Getting involved in a group of mixed ages would help avoid memories of childhood

The Guardian - UK · Apr 12

I’ve spent 20 years treading water and fear that I’ve wasted so much time. Am I depressed?

It’s time to turn your attention to your internal landscape rather than the next building project. Make you your next project

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