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Annalisa Barbieri

Our children may be surprised by what’s in our will – should we tell them now?

Gary Rycroft Annalisa Barbieri

An illustration of a man facing away with his arms crossed — Illustration: Alex Mellon/The Guardian

My wife and I have three children and several grandchildren. Our will may contain some surprises for them. Is it better to reveal its contents while we are still alive, or let our beneficiaries discover them when we die?

We gave our children considerable financial help, enabling them to buy their first homes. We have also made sizeable contributions to our grandchildren’s education funds.

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