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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Annalisa Barbieri

My longterm boyfriend died last year. Is it too soon to date someone new?

An illustration of a woman sitting on the floor turned away with her hands around her knees.

My longterm boyfriend died of cancer last year. We’d been together for 16 years, since I was 21 and he was 23. I had given birth to our only child three weeks before his diagnosis. My son was just shy of 10 months old when his dad died, and he’s now turned two.

I loved my late partner deeply and had planned to stay with him for ever. We were embarking on an 18-year project together, raising our son. Now I think, how can I ever be happy again?

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