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My friend’s ex gives him no parental rights over their son. How can I help him?

I would urge your friend to keep a diary of what’s happening. Not least because one day his son may need to know he tried

The Guardian - UK · Nov 18, 2022

My parents have always made me feel so angry. Can I find a way to assert myself?

It might be worth digging into what it is you fear if you were to reveal your feelings. There may be an explosion, but then what?

The Guardian - UK · Nov 11, 2022

I think my friend’s husband is emotionally abusing her. Should I talk to her about it?

Standing by, or with, someone you think is being abused is very difficult. So tread with care, and make sure you look after yourself too

The Guardian - UK · Nov 4, 2022

My in-laws never pay their way and it drives me mad. How can I break this habit?

Ask your husband why he always pays for his family – and ask yourself why you don’t dare discuss this behaviour with them

The Guardian - UK · Oct 7, 2022

I secretly contacted my father – now my mother refuses to speak to me

You did nothing wrong in seeking out your father. Love is not about declaring total loyalty

The Guardian - UK · Sep 30, 2022

I am one of three women in my lover’s life, but I hate the idea of ending our relationship

Don’t leave your job because of this man who will only give you bits of himself. Instead, consider leaving him

The Guardian - UK · Sep 23, 2022

My friends are very flirty with my new partner. What should I do about it?

This may be their way of showing they accept your new man. And remember, you can ask him for some reassurance

The Guardian - UK · Sep 16, 2022

How do I cope with a friend who is consistently flaky?

Some people are just rubbish at arrangements and also fear rejection, but that doesn’t mean she isn’t trying

The Guardian - UK · Sep 9, 2022

My partner won’t wear sun cream despite my pleas – I’m terrified he’ll get cancer

This is about the trauma of losing your first husband to cancer, and the risks of ‘living’ again

The Guardian - UK · Sep 2, 2022

I constantly feel hurt and let down by friends who never show any interest in me

I’m wondering if this centres around your mother’s death. Maybe you felt she was the only one who listened to you?

The Guardian - UK · Aug 26, 2022