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My 80-year-old dad is unrealistic about his future. Why can’t he move into a retirement village?

It is difficult for adult children to navigate these changes, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. But it is difficult for your father too

The Guardian - AU · Sep 19, 2024

My wife’s drinking is way over guidelines but she never loses control. What do you suggest?

Alcohol consumption can be hard to talk about, but trying to subtly change your wife’s behaviour without explaining why is likely to make her bristle

The Guardian - AU · Sep 12, 2024

I am falling for an amazing woman who is a flat-earther. Can I reconcile my diminishing respect?

Disagreements about our beliefs are one thing, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith, but our beliefs are also bound up with what we value

The Guardian - AU · Sep 6, 2024

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My 15-year-old stepdaughter never acknowledges my birthday. Am I wrong to stop buying her gifts?

It’s frustrating to put in a lot of effort and not get any back, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. Before you say you’re done with gifts, perhaps share what they mean to you

The Guardian - AU · Aug 29, 2024

My family have all but ignored the anniversary of my partner’s death. Am I wrong to feel so hurt?

Your loss deserves to be acknowledged, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. If your family are not providing you with this, find ways to mark it without them

The Guardian - AU · Aug 22, 2024

A canvas was damaged as I helped a friend move. She’s asked me for $1,200. Should I end the friendship?

I wouldn’t have thought you had to pay for this, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith, but it might be worth seeing if you can help her feel compensated in another way

The Guardian - AU · Aug 15, 2024

My adult son has moved back home and is behaving like a teenager – and I’m deeply unhappy

You can be silent or have a confrontation – and both options sound awful, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. But now is the time to switch abstract wishes for a concrete plan

The Guardian - AU · Aug 2, 2024

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My long-term partner says he wants an open relationship. I understand why, but it feels one-sided. What should we do?

One question to ask is how this arrangement might feel for you, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. Whatever you decide, it’s important not to constantly feel like this is an open question

The Guardian - AU · Jul 25, 2024

How people vote affects my life and relationships – how do I explain that to my apolitical friend?

It would be weird to associate only with those who agree with us, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. But we do eventually have to take responsibility for life’s editorial decisions

The Guardian - AU · Jul 18, 2024

I feel despair about the state of the world. How can I find the courage to not abandon hope?

Hope is something we choose – and sustain for the sake of others, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. Seek out others who are looking for reasons to keep going

The Guardian - AU · Jul 11, 2024

My daughter visits daily since her partner left her. How can I reclaim my space without offending her?

It’s a testament to your parenting that your daughter feels she can hide with you, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. While time helps to heal, seek out ways to share the load

The Guardian - AU · Jul 4, 2024

Our neighbours never return my son’s ball when it goes over the hedge. How can I get it back without conflict?

Your neighbours may see the matter as disrespect in projectile form, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. An apology, a request and a direct conversation is better than petty revenge

The Guardian - AU · Jun 27, 2024

Afternoon Update: couple plead not guilty to Amber Haigh murder; First Nations elders oppose nuclear plan; and South Korea considers arming Ukraine

Robert and Anne Geeves face court over the suspected killing of Haigh, who disappeared in June of 2002

The Guardian - AU · Jun 21, 2024

My husband loves me but clearly fancies a woman at work. How can I manage my jealousy?

His crush is not an appraisal of you, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. While this woman presents novelty, you have a shared history, a home and a union

The Guardian - AU · Jun 20, 2024

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The Guardian - AU · Jun 13, 2024

My conservative parents won’t allow me to study abroad. How can I convince them I’ll be safe?

It might help to understand the source of their fears, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. Start by treating their feelings with the same regard you want for yours

The Guardian - AU · Jun 6, 2024

My housemates leave dirty dishes lying around for days. How can I let go of my irritation?

Sometimes anger only goes away once we let it boil, advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith writes. Start by exploring private and fun ways to release your frustration

The Guardian - AU · May 31, 2024

I’m moving overseas to study and my mum wants to track my phone. How do I push back?

Acceding to her request doesn’t do your relationship any favours, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. Take this as an opportunity to develop the relationship as two adults

The Guardian - AU · May 23, 2024

My wife has put on weight and I’m no longer attracted to her. What should I do?

It’s one thing to struggle with finding your partner attractive, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. It’s another to feel contempt for them

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The Guardian - AU · May 16, 2024

I’m getting married but my father isn’t invited. How can I ensure he doesn’t crash the wedding?

You can’t cordon off every weird dynamic on the big day, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. But you can be clear you won’t accept trespasses without consequence

The Guardian - AU · May 9, 2024

My mother spends her days serving a ‘holy man’. How can I make her see he is not a positive force?

You risk alienating your mother by opposing her views and choices, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. If she’s at risk of exploitation, professionals can help

The Guardian - AU · May 2, 2024

My mother-in-law pushes to spend more time with our baby. How can I keep her at arm’s length?

She may not realise the effect she’s having on you, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. Try to be clear with her about what would help

The Guardian - AU · Apr 25, 2024

My partner concealed he had more than one ex-wife. Should I be nervous about our future?

This omission demonstrates a troubling facility with concealment, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. To move forward, you need to be satisfied there are no more big surprises

The Guardian - AU · Apr 18, 2024

My close friend is a therapist but all she does is complain. Should I exit this relationship?

There may be ways to protect yourself from her negativity without jettisoning the relationship, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. Start by creating boundaries

The Guardian - AU · Apr 11, 2024

I told a friend about my husband’s poor finances and now he secretly mocks him. What should I do?

It’s a shame your friend has started making jokes like this, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. But there’s a way to put a stop to this dynamic

The Guardian - AU · Apr 4, 2024

I’m desperately unhappy with my job, but my boss relies on me. Should I quit?

We often wind up with feelings of obligation towards our work, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. But ask yourself: would your employer think the same?

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