The perils of perfectionism – and why ‘good enough’ should be your goal Healthy striving – a flexible wish to improve – accepts limits and understands that error is integral to mastery The Guardian - AU · Jan 18
Breaking free from resentment: the hidden cost of revenge and the healing power of forgiveness Chronic bitterness keeps the body in fight-or-flight mode, raising blood pressure and sapping energy. Letting go is less about virtue and more about reclaiming peace of mind The Guardian - AU · Sep 14, 2025
From a punishing void to a chance to observe: how we can learn to wait in life In a world of impatience, to live slowly is an act of quiet rebellion – a refusal to see time as a thief The Guardian - AU · Jun 22, 2025
Anna was overwhelmed by the administrative burden of her job. Self-compassion was the answer Over time, she was able to more readily accept the impact of ADHD on her life without labelling this as a character flaw The Guardian - AU · Mar 2, 2025
Meera’s perception of her in-laws as the enemy was intense. So was her struggle with her own ‘ugly’ emotions Gaining insight into ‘us and them’ thinking helped ease anxiety and restore a degree of family harmony The Guardian - AU · Nov 10, 2024
Our internal narratives can hold us back. Changing them is tough but rewarding work We develop stories as short cuts to navigate our worlds and it requires focus and energy to re-evaluate them The Guardian - AU · Jun 23, 2024
It’s important to recognise trauma – but we should not let it become our entire identity This mindset wears us down and disrupts relationships. To feel empowered in the present we must come to terms with the past The Guardian - AU · Mar 31, 2024
Health anxiety can be all-consuming. Accepting uncertainty is an important step The overwhelming fear of contracting an illness or an excessive focus on symptoms are debilitating conditions, exacerbated by Dr Google The Guardian - AU · Oct 29, 2023
Sometimes your therapist needs their own therapist – and that’s a good thing Supervision for psychotherapists can play a vital role in illuminating relational blind spots that may be affecting the therapeutic process The Guardian - AU · Jun 25, 2023
Social anxiety disorder is crippling – and common. Graded exposure is the first step out Effective treatment usually requires a holistic approach, yet those suffering often avoid seeking help The Guardian - AU · Mar 19, 2023
Bereavement often takes our sense of self – but it can be regained We may be for ever altered by the death of a loved one, but we will eventually be able to reintegrate into life The Guardian - AU · Nov 27, 2022
Tina, 14, is self-harming. How can a therapist win her trust that others can help? Cutting is a response to intense feelings, with physical pain taking the place of psychic pain The Guardian - AU · Aug 22, 2022
Cleo’s world was darkened by depression. Reconnecting brought back some colour The very act of talking about it in a supportive environment can provide some comfort for many who are depressed The Guardian - AU · May 22, 2022