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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
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Gill Straker and Jacqui Winship

Breaking free from resentment: the hidden cost of revenge and the healing power of forgiveness

Friends looking at frustrated man sitting alone in cafe
Studies show that imagining or enacting revenge has a neurologically ‘addictive’ quality. However, as with all addictions, the pleasure is fleeting, while the long-term consequences are severe. Photograph: Aleksandr Davydov/Alamy

Famous for his capacity to forgive his persecutors, Nelson Mandela is credited with the quote “resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies”. But many people experience a strong temptation to continue to drink the poison of resentment in vain. This often results in enduring low mood and depression that can have profound psychological, relational and physiological affects.

What explains the roots of resentment and why is it so persistent?

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