Dear Abby: My friend still constantly mentions her husband, who’s been dead 6 years Though their marriage had ups and downs, she now talks about him as though he were a saint. Chicago Sun-Times · Aug 12, 2023
Dear Abby: I get rid of treasures in my home after friends ridicule them Owner can’t look at the items of art and decor without being reminded of visitors’ thoughtless jokes. Chicago Sun-Times · Aug 11, 2023
Dear Abby: Is it weird that couple in their 20s have meager sex life? Sometimes they go months without a hookup, and one mate is questioning whether they’re compatibie. Chicago Sun-Times · Aug 9, 2023
Dear Abby: I’m a mom worried about my husband’s motorcycle interest Fearing for his safety, she tells him about her anxiety but feels bad about discouraging his hobby. Chicago Sun-Times · Aug 8, 2023
Dear Abby: We never told sons about our first marriages Parents consider whether finally to reveal to the men, now in their 30s, that they had divorced other spouses before marrying. Chicago Sun-Times · Aug 7, 2023
Dear Abby: Man demands apologies from father and brother, makes mom the middleman Son threatens to stop visiting unless she gets his dad, a recovering alcoholic, and his sibling to say they’re sorry for their past behavior. Chicago Sun-Times · Aug 6, 2023
Dear Abby: We just learned our homophobic father is having secret gay sex Reeling from this discovery, man’s adult children are concerned about their mother and uncertain about whether to tell their dad what they know. Chicago Sun-Times · Aug 5, 2023
Dear Abby: I’m sad, anxious when my 2 kids are with my ex Mom agreed to a 50-50 schedule with the children’s unfaithful, abusive father, and she worries about whether that’s best for them. Chicago Sun-Times · Aug 4, 2023
Dear Abby: Is it too late to save marriage I wrecked with my drinking? Wife is seeing other men, vowing to get divorced and apparently has hired a lawyer, but her husband is in alcohol recovery and doesn’t want to lose her. Chicago Sun-Times · Aug 3, 2023
Dear Abby: I’ve kept friends in the dark about the problems consuming my life Woman fears talking about her own health issues and her children’s will bring down the room. Chicago Sun-Times · Aug 1, 2023
Dear Abby: It hurts that parents are letting my ex live in their house The arrangement creates an ongoing rift between the couple and their adult child. Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 31, 2023
Dear Abby: Ever since I called out his rudeness, friend’s husband has avoided me For years he’s been fleeing his house rather than face the person who said his teasing went too far. Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 30, 2023
Dear Abby: Son’s excessive PDA with girlfriend makes me ill Mom has learned next to nothing about the woman he’s dating but knows she can’t stand her. Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 29, 2023
Dear Abby: Boyfriend lets neighbor insult and harass me He doesn’t want to confront his friend across the street who belittles his girlfriend and lurks at the couple’s home. Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 27, 2023
Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 26, 2023 Dear Abby: If you’re reading this, I love you and pray you get help Woman reaches out to the man he adores, a dedicated Abby reader, who left her when she tried to stop him from driving drunk.
Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 25, 2023 Dear Abby: Dad chooses not to visit, making teen feel insecure Though boy talks to his father on the phone, he hasn’t seen him in nearly four years and feels deep sense of rejection.
Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 24, 2023 Dear Abby: Here’s my pickle — I have a crush on married pickleball partner Infatuated player knows any courtship off the court would be wrong but still can’t stop thinking about the beautiful and friendly woman.
Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 23, 2023 Dear Abby: We can’t afford our share of big baby shower that son-in-law’s parents want The pregnant woman’s family, used to simpler affairs at home, is asked to contribute half the cost of a grand affair
Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 22, 2023 Dear Abby: Relationship suffers as man decides he no longer has to show appreciation Partner feels deceived as formerly loving mate stops trying.
Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 21, 2023 Dear Abby: My mom refuses to discuss wishes for end-of-life care Though she benefited from her husband’s planning for his final days, she won’t make a plan of her own and says anyone who asks about it is ‘morbid.’
Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 20, 2023 Dear Abby: Daughter balks at being RA to help pay for college The free room & board would ease the burden for her financially stretched family, but she fears being ‘stuck’ in a freshman dorm will hurt her social life.
Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 19, 2023 Dear Abby: My employer’s bookkeeper blabs about my salary Loose-lipped woman has everyone in the small town thinking her friend and co-worker is well-off but stingy with charity donations.
Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 17, 2023 Dear Abby: My friend buys us mountains of gifts she can’t afford Grateful for past help, she keeps up the generosity even as she’s so deep in debt that she needs to sell her house.
Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 16, 2023 Dear Abby: Some relatives never visited my father with Alzheimer’s Disappointed reader concludes that either they didn’t care, no one cared, or they were for some reason afraid to see someone with the disease
Chicago Sun-Times · Jul 14, 2023 Dear Abby: Sister-in-law takes charge of scheduling family events, ignores all input No one else has any say about where, when the relatives will meet up.