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Danielle Kate Wroe & Hannah Mackenzie Wood

Woman calls for policy change after 'screaming' baby ruins posh meal out

A woman was left furious after her fancy meal out was ruined by "screaming and crying" children sitting at the table next to her. The diner had booked a posh restaurant for her family, however not long after arriving, a mum and dad with three youngsters were seated next to them.

Taking to Mumsnet to vent her frustrations, she says the children spent the entire meal climbing on the window sills and bashing cutlery on the table. The disruption was so bad that she ended up complaining to restaurant staff and was offered a free bottle of wine - but says this wasn't enough to make up for the trouble.

As reported by the Mirror, she explained: "Four of us booked a table in an expensive restaurant last night for 7.30pm. About 10 minutes after we'd sat down a couple came in pushing a buggy and with two other children in tow. They were seated at the table beside us."

The Mumsnetter then went on to explain what antics the children were getting up to, writing: "One child kept bashing his spoon off the table, another kept crawling along the wide windowsill so that he was right behind my head, and the baby was kept amused by the father playing peek a boo while she screamed excitedly. This went on and on.

"We asked to be moved to another table. There were none available. Then the baby started crying loudly and the toddler got tired and cranky and joined the wailing. We left without dessert and complained on the way out. They knocked the price of a bottle of wine off our bill.

"Am I being unreasonable to think expensive restaurants, charging a fortune, should have a policy for dealing with situations like this? We paid a lot of money for a meal we couldn't enjoy."

People weren't convinced the woman should've complained in the comments, as many thought she was making a mountain out of a molehill.

One wrote: "Sounds annoying but not the end of the world, just bad luck. You had a free bottle of wine. The family tried to keep their kids entertained, and I doubt they will take them out late again for a while."

Another sympathised a bit more, writing: "A lot of nice restaurants don’t allow children at dinner seating times and I think that’s ok. They’ll allow 'well-behaved children' at lunch and I think this is a good policy as it would put me off taking a toddler or baby but now my kids are old enough to sit still for longer I could take them, so that’s fair enough.

"I’m sorry your meal was ruined. I would feel the same if I'd gone out with my husband on our own as it’s such a rare occasion."

Others defended the kids, with one commenting: "So parents shouldn't be entitled to a meal out? Babies cry and toddlers can make noise. You're in a public restaurant."

Someone pointed out that people are never happy, writing: "If these children had been sat silently at the table staring at screens people probably would have been complaining about that too. For some reason, we have a widespread assumption in the UK that children’s and adults’ spheres shouldn’t mix very much."

Another mum pointed out that the opposite had happened to her and her family. She commented: "Sounds annoying but on the flip side, we booked a table for 5pm in a family-friendly restaurant that had a children's menu too. We were literally surrounded by three Hen parties. Noisy, squealing women covered in plastic d****.

"My son literally cried from the noise and the staff wouldn't seat us elsewhere. We tried to find another place to eat nearby but everywhere was fully booked. And we were far from home on a day out. We shrugged it off as one s**** meal. You should too."

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