Strictly Come Dancing star Helen Skelton was steering clear of rugby player Richie Myler for a year before the pair split.
The BBC Countryfile presenter has also spoken of how she felt 'undervalued' at times as she tried to balance her job and the family.
She married Leeds Rhinos star Richie, 32, in 2013 and they separated in April, four months after she gave birth to their third child.
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As reported by the Mirror, asked last year if the couple went on dates, Helen, 39, said: "No... We're not in the house together – we are staying out of each other's way.
"We say this is the dream as we have breakfast, lunch and dinner together but then look after the kids in shifts.
"You appreciate the other in this situation. I don't think he'll ever say again, 'What do you do with the kids all day?'. Sometimes I would get in from work and he'd be that husband that would look at the kitchen and say, 'How is this still a mess when she’s been off all day?'.
"Now he's done it he's like, 'How does she stay sane?'."
Helen – whose other children with Richie are five and seven – added the kids would be up late, preventing the couple having quality time together.
She said: "If we sit on the couch before 10pm we're happy. My kids... are terrible sleepers.
The couple had been renovating a house near the family home in Yorkshire. They took it in turns to work on it, meaning even more time apart.
Describing the family dog, Helen said: "He is my sanity. I take [him] for a run and feel much better."
Richie, playing for Ireland in the World Cup, is now in a relationship with Stephanie Thirkill, 32, whose dad is Rhinos president Andrew Thirkill.
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