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The Economic Times
The Economic Times
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Aastha Raj

Psychology says some people want love but fear closeness. Why emotionally unavailable partners pull you in, then suddenly push you away

Many people have experienced the confusion of being close to someone who appears deeply interested one day and emotionally distant the next. At first, the relationship feels promising. Conversations flow easily, affection is present, and the connection appears genuine. Then, without warning, the person begins withdrawing, becoming harder to reach, less expressive, or emotionally unavailable.

Psychology suggests that this behavior is not always manipulation or lack of interest. In many cases, it reflects an internal conflict between the desire for connection and the fear of emotional vulnerability.

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