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The Economic Times
The Economic Times
National
Aastha Raj

Psychology says checking your partner’s last seen is not just curiosity, it shows where insecurity, trust issues, and relationship anxiety begin

Most people have done it at least once. You send a message. Minutes pass. Then hours. Suddenly, you find yourself checking your partner's last seen status. You notice they were online recently. You wonder why they haven't replied. You check again. And then again.

What starts as a quick glance can turn into a habit that creates stress, frustration, and endless questions. Psychology says this behavior is rarely about curiosity alone. In many cases, repeatedly checking a partner's online activity is connected to deeper emotional processes involving attachment, insecurity, fear of rejection, trust concerns, and relationship anxiety.

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