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The Guardian - US
The Guardian - US
Lifestyle
Isabel Kaplan

My boyfriend, a writer, broke up with me because I’m a writer

Nora Ephron, Carl Bernstein and guest during Amnesty International Benefit, 1977 at Tavern on the Green in New York City.
Nora Ephron, Carl Bernstein and guest during Amnesty International Benefit, 1977 at Tavern on the Green in New York City. Photograph: Ron Galella/Ron Galella Collection/Getty Images

Five weeks to the day after my debut novel was published, my boyfriend, who is a writer, broke up with me because I am a writer.

I’ve been a writer for a long time. So has he. Until this summer, he was unquestionably the more publicly prominent one. When I told my friends about the breakup, they suggested he was threatened by my success. “This is the oldest story in the book,” my mom said. “Betty Friedan covered it decades ago.”

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