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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
Antoun Issa

Can you make friends without alcohol? It took me a year to say yes

Can you make meaningful friendships without alcohol. Alcohol illustation. Friends, alone, isolation.
‘Too often meeting people is conflated with befriending them.’ Illustration: Greedy Hen/The Guardian

It’s been more than a year since I divorced alcohol – which began as an attempt to wrest some control over a life thrown into a tumble dryer by the rude intrusions of a pandemic. Questions fielded from fellow 30-somethings since then have hinted more at curiosity than taboo. “Why did you suddenly choose to give up alcohol?” The answer: the ranking of health in the pecking order of life priorities rises as the creases of age begin to appear.

Those health benefits were predictably felt. My higher-than-desired cholesterol dropped 0.8 mmol/L in the year sans booze. “If you keep up with this trend, you’ll be on track to reaching your target,” my doctor encouraged.

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