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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
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Lucy Clark

A 16-year-old girl has died from suspected sexual choking. How do we come to terms with this?

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Proponents of sexual strangulation say that between two consenting adults who have discussed boundaries it’s fine. But when people die, you have to ask: is it worth the risk? Photograph: AlexLinch/Getty Images

How can we possibly come to terms with reports a 16-year-old girl may have died as a result of consensual sexual strangulation with her 16-year-old boyfriend? Police are still investigating this case. Meanwhile what do we do, as a society, to contend with children getting their sex education from pornography when this may be what they learn? When this is what they think sex is?

Often mistakenly referred to as choking, sexual strangulation in the mainstream is new. It has arrived into the bedrooms of young people via online porn which has become part of life, one of the many addictive services generously provided by tech companies making billions of dollars. Some companies do a good job of cleaning up the urgent issues of child sexual abuse material and trafficking, but still, violent porn proliferates.

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