
For years, I kept buying items that weren’t truly useful – they just looked impressive. These purchases weren’t about functionality or fun; they were performative, bought to signal success, style, or financial comfort to others, and often influenced by my social media habits.
Now I am starting to try and cut contact with my previously dependable influencers; however, my eyes are being opened to just what does and does not serve me, and what was acting as a 'if you know you know' signal to people whose opinions ultimately didn't matter.