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What You Are Actually Screening For in a First Meeting, and What That Says About Your Relationship Patterns

The question you are really asking when you ask about his weekendWhen he tells you what he did on Saturday, you are not cataloguing his hobbies. You are watching how he talks about his own time. Does he sound like someone who chose those hours, or someone who filled them?…

Times Life · Sep 4

Can 36 questions really change your love life?

About a decade ago, author Mandy Len Catron wrote an essay for the New York Times about “36 questions that lead to love”. The idea suggests that two people can grow closer – and even fall in love – by answering a series of increasingly intimate questions.

The Conversation · Feb 11

‘It felt like a job application’: the people weeding out first dates with questionnaires

Some app users are sending out surveys to screen potential suitors. But can a pop quiz ever lead to love?

The Guardian - US · Jan 25, 2023