When it’s time to start making estate planning decisions, emotions and family dynamics can easily cloud judgment. Many parents feel tempted to leave key responsibilities to the child they feel closest to, or the one they believe “deserves it most.” But choosing someone to manage your affairs is not about love or loyalty—it’s about ability. Good estate planning is all about ensuring your wishes are carried out with clarity, efficiency, and minimal drama. That means picking the most capable person for the job, not necessarily your favorite.
