A holidaymaker described her heartbreak after fellow hotel guests "laughed" at her wearing her bikini.
Solo traveller Lolly McKenzie was taking her first trip alone in Majorca to overcome her struggles with social anxiety, as well as autism and ADHD.
The TikToker embarked on the trip to "take the next step" and boost her confidence in social situations.
But the 26-year-old from Liverpool has said other guests at her resort were less than kind, and has spoken out about the nasty comments and looks she faced to help others living with similar conditions.
Lolly said a "grey cloud" descended as she arrived at the Spanish resort, with hostility she received almost causing her to retreat to her room for the rest of the trip, Liverpool ECHO reports.
"There was nothing with the hotel itself, it was just the guests," she said.
"You could not walk through the hotel without getting stared through and laughed at, there were groups of friends turning and laughing at you. It was really uncomfortable."
Lolly believes the guests were unhappy at her because she is a plus-sized woman and was dressing less conservatively than them.
She said: "I think I was being laughed at because I had a bikini on. At one point I was standing at the hotel bar waiting for a drink and I saw this man look at me.
"He sniggered to himself, turned to his group of friends, passed the comment onto them and they started laughing at me too.
"I don’t know what they were saying, but I know that they were staring at what I was wearing.
You can tell the difference between a nice comment and a degrading comment."
She said: "It takes a lot for me to pluck up the courage to be in these situations. I know everything can’t go my way, but you just don’t expect to be repeatedly bullied."
Lolly was able to overcome her anxieties and enjoy the rest of her holiday at the nearby beach. She said: "It was a very close call between using it to empower and going into my shell and staying in the room.
"But I tried to look at the bigger picture, and how far I’ve come to even get to that point, so to let them ruin it would have been silly."
Lolly is now planning another solo holiday in Greece after recharging the batteries in sunny Spain.
She said: "I never imagined I could do this, sometimes I struggle to even go the Asda by myself."
Lolly is far more sure of herself after receiving her ADHD and diagnosis last year, which she feels took longer because of her gender.
The ADHD Centre has argued that adult ADHD symptoms are “more likely to go undiagnosed in women than in men” because women can face extra societal pressures. Therefore, finding a diagnosis can be “extra-stressful and difficult”.
Lolly said: "I’ve had a lot of issues throughout my life because it is harder for women with ADHD and autism. The symptoms are more internalised.
"Now I have my diagnosis, I know the reasons I react a certain way or why my brain processes things, so it’s a lot easier for me to do things and get over things."
This increased confidence is reflected in Lolly’s TikTok, where she talks about her issues to help others going through similar problems to over 50,000 followers.
She also started DJ’ing on SoundCloud, a dream career which she had put off pursuing for years.
Lolly said: "I like to use my platform for positivity. I’d encourage people going through similar things to me to believe in themselves.
"You can do things as long as you put your mind to it and you listen to yourself and put yourself above other people’s opinions."
