An Instagram creator who goes by the username @datewithviolet, known as Violet, shared a post, saying a man she had met on a Tinder date sent her a text message that she described as controlling. According to Violet, instead of simply asking her out again, the man allegedly sent her a list of rules she would need to follow if she wanted to go on a second date with him.
Rather than ignoring the message or blocking him, Violet said she chose to respond directly and call out what she described as controlling and misogynistic behavior. In the video she posted, Violet shared what she claimed was the man’s message. According to her, the man said he expected women dating him to “behave in a certain way.”
