You sit in your car in the driveway, delaying the moment you must go inside. Although you love your partner, the thought of another conversation, another demand, or just their physical presence feels overwhelming. Consequently, the guilt hits immediately. We are conditioned to believe that “true love” means wanting to be together 24/7. However, here is the truth: wanting space isn’t a betrayal; rather, it is a biological necessity. Ultimately, the guilt you feel is a lie told by a culture that equates suffocation with intimacy.
