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The Independent UK
The Independent UK
Lifestyle
Charlotte Cripps

When is the best time to tell your child the truth about Father Christmas, according to psychologists?

‘Miracle on 34th Street’ explores the true nature of believing for children and adults alike - (20th Century Fox)

Is this the year for the big reveal – that Santa is just a big fat lie? My daughter Liberty, seven, came home from school yesterday, and said: “Mummy, is Father Christmas real? A boy in my class says he isn’t.” I was speechless – and didn't know what to say. I stared at the floor – not wanting to catch her gaze.

The big festive lie doesn’t sit well with me, as I don’t want to be blatantly dishonest. Lying to my children about Santa – and the Elf on the Shelf, too – feels like a form of bad parenting that could dismantle well-earned trust. And, frankly, I don’t know how to handle the situation.

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