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Evening Standard
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Lucy Webster

What dating as a disabled woman in London is really like

London Sexism

Dating in London is bad. We all know it. Dating as a woman in London is worse. And dating as a disabled woman? Let me tell you: it’s the absolute pits.

Quite how bad the dating world is for me, a very visibly disabled woman, seems to come as a surprise to even the most seasoned and jaded dater. So let me just give you a flavour of some of the hatred and nastiness that has come my way over the past 10 years.

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