Dear Coleen, I’ve been married 43 years and haven’t been intimate with my wife for 13 of those.
She works nights and I’m retired, so this is my problem. We no longer sleep together and I miss the closeness of a cuddle, a kiss or an “I love you”.
We moved to our bungalow three years ago and refurbished the back bedroom, and also created an en suite bathroom for the master bedroom.