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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
As told to Olivia Ladanyi

This is how we do it: ‘The dark room is a judgment-free place, where we can live out fantasies together’

Illustration of a pair of curtains made of bare legs being pulled aside.

Conrad, 36

We keep the connection with subtle signals, glances across the room and an unspoken agreement that we won’t disappear

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