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Olabisi Oyelana, Assistant Professor, Faculty of Nursing, MacEwan University

The stories we tell ourselves shape who we are

Ben Okri

“One way or another, we are living the stories planted knowingly or unknowingly in us early in life, the stories that give our lives meaning.” - Ben Okri, A Way of Being Free

Our identities are dynamic and complex constructs. They are fluid and continually negotiated through our lived experiences and our relationships. Identity is also anchored in stories: we are shaped by the stories we live in and live by.

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