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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
Megan Holbeck

The moment I knew: we were running late, but his optimism was contagious

Megan Holbeck and Guy in wedding attire at a beach
Megan Holbeck and Guy on their wedding day at Wilsons Prom in Victoria in 2005. Photograph: Supplied

In 1992 I arrived for year 9 as a scholarship kid at a boarding school in the Victorian Alps. I was from Canberra and knew no one. Boring suburbia was replaced by a bush shed shared with 14 girls. We had to chop wood for warmth and hot showers, and spent weekends hiking and skiing. I got tougher, explored my limits (a half marathon and six-day hike by the end of the year) and made lifelong friends.

One of them was Guy. He was in my French class, our desks separated by half the alphabet. A regular in my diary list of “top five boys”, he was witty, genuine and playful. We played pranks and games – table rugby, footsies, hid and stole each other’s stuff – and sent ridiculous notes at supper. Whatever we did, there was laughter.

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