A relationship coach has shared how to spot 'Bens' and get out of the 'Ben Stage' - as the new dating pitfall sweeps the globe.
Sabrina Bendory, 38, says Ben is the new version of the J name - the internet trend warning women of men with names that begin with J - such as James, Joe and Jack.
According to Sabrina, 'Ben' is a charming, inconsistent player who will date you on their terms but doesn't really want a girlfriend.