Any driver knows that parking can be a huge pain in the neck. That’s why many of them pay to have an assigned parking spot, so they don’t have to go looking for an empty one at the end of a long day.
This redditor, too, paid for the parking spot next to her house; however, someone would repeatedly leave their vehicle there. To make matters worse, the person continued doing so even after multiple conversations with—and notes left by—the OP. Unsurprisingly, the latter eventually ran out of patience.
Scroll down to find the full story below, where you will also find Bored Panda’s interview with Teresa Di Felice, Assistant Vice President of Government & Community Relations at CAA South Central Ontario, who was kind enough to answer a few of our questions regarding respecting traffic rules and fellow drivers.
People parking in places where they shouldn’t is far more common than most drivers would want it to be
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This woman had to deal with someone repeatedly using her parking spot
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Many people report having troubles involving neighbors and parking
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Neighbors can be both a blessing and a curse; if they’re respectful, helpful, or simply nice people to have around, it can be great for numerous reasons, from throwing BBQ parties together to being able to trust them with your spare key. However, troublesome or rude neighbors often become the bane of the existence of those living nearby.
Even though it is clear without academic research, studies emphasize that neighboring is not an unproblematic social practice, due to the tensions and conflicts that arise in the context of physical proximity. Neighbor annoyances often relate to noise, pets, fences, trees, and, of course, parking, all of which can “undermine one’s sense of home as a place of enjoyment, privacy, and autonomy.”
A poll carried out in the UK for Churchill Motor Insurance found that quite a few people have encountered parking-related troubles caused by their neighbors. Close to half of the respondents—48% of them—said that they have had to deal with the latter blocking access to their driveway, garage, or an allocated parking space. Roughly one-in-six respondents said they have had to argue with their neighbors over parking, which is unlikely to make anyone’s sense of neighborliness any stronger, either.
Parking illegally is likely to result in your car being towed
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Discussing why people tend not to care about certain traffic rules or pay no attention to whose spot it is that they’re taking away, Teresa Di Felice, Assistant Vice President of Government & Community Relations at CAA South Central Ontario, pointed out that people often think that their short-term gain is more significant than everyone else’s long-term pain; but that is just not the case.
“There’s a potential ripple effect that’s much bigger than the convenience somebody thinks they’re getting by putting their vehicle where it shouldn’t be for just a few minutes,” she said. “On residential streets, people might think it won’t have as big of an impact as on a major road, but everyone’s rights to property and access should be respected. We all have a role to play in keeping our roads safe.”
In a recent interview with Bored Panda, the expert noted that getting your car towed can be a stressful experience, but that should be all the more reason not to park it where you’re not allowed to. “From the cost to the inconvenience of having to find out where your car was impounded, getting your car towed after illegally parking somewhere is a hard lesson to learn. If you have ever known anyone or asked someone who has had their car impounded, it’s not an experience that you want to go through again. It is better not to have to go through it all, and you won’t if you obey the signs that tell you where you can and cannot leave your car.”
The woman in the OP’s story didn’t seem to fear the idea of being towed much, as even after several warnings, she continued to occupy the redditor’s parking spot. Eventually, that led to her having to learn the lesson the hard way, but in the eyes of fellow redditors, that didn’t make the OP a jerk; they shared their thoughts in the comments.
Netizens wanted to know if it was always the same car in the parking space assigned to the OP
Redditors shared their reactions in the comments, they didn’t think the OP was a jerk in the situation
