I’m in my early 70s and have been married to one man for over half a century. However, we’ve lived apart for four years now, and I like it very much. My husband was a bad-tempered man, and it was a relief to move out. My problem is that I seem frozen and unable to move on to a divorce.
My husband has improved his behaviour over the past four years, loves me, and we do have grandchildren and a rich history together. However, I don’t love him any more. Recently I met a man who would like to become more involved with me. I’d love to have an affair with him, but I know I don’t want to marry him or move in together. He lives hundreds of miles away. But what fun it would be to have him as a boyfriend! He is kind and I enjoy his company.
