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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Annalisa Barbieri

My elder son resents his brother’s special needs – how can I help him understand?

Annalisa, building blocks

I have two wonderful sons aged seven and three. My issue is that my older son does not understand that his brother has additional needs and resents the extra attention he gets. My youngest is being assessed for autism, and has significant traits. He needs constant supervision and has routines that must be followed or he gets distressed. Our eldest finds this frustrating and blames his brother for ruining everything.

My eldest is very bright and engaging. He demands attention and has always been melodramatic, even at a young age. He gets frustrated his brother won’t play with him and says he’s weird.

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