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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
As told to Kitty Drake

‘Most of the flirting is virtual – you sit at a computer and talk to girls online’: This is how we do it in China

Illustration of a naked man and woman who are kissing while blindfolded

Tao, 39

After seven years together, we’ve started to have great sex. It’s taken time to shed my sexual guilt

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