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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
As told to Doosie Morris

‘It was time to start afresh’: readers on love in an empty nest

A composite, with the main image from Couple in Lamplight by Nicholas Biddle Kittell.
A composite with the main image from Couple in Lamplight (1845) by Nicholas Biddle Kittell. Composite: Guardian Design

After years in the trenches together raising a family, couples whose children have flown the coop face a very different looking future. Like all major life transitions it can be a fraught time, especially for relationships. It even has its own syndrome. While the complicated feelings of loss and pride aren’t a clinical diagnosis, the fallout from the shift in family dynamics can be significant.

According to readers, whether relationships flourish or flounder in the aftermath has much to do with self-awareness, preparation and – like most things to do with love – communication.

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