The golden rule for a post written immediately after a fight is to write it, then delete it, then take a break and go for a walk… and then, if you still want to put it out there, write it again. But be sure to use the proper wording. Otherwise, the effect you achieve may be quite the opposite of what you want.
For example, the author of our story today, the user u/Dobbys_c*msock (yes, that’s right—obviously, the guy is an avid Harry Potter fan with a specific sense of humor), tried to evoke sympathy and support from netizens after a spat with his wife, but all he achieved was a real waterfall of jokes aimed at himself.
More info: Reddit