I called Siri "she" the other day. I caught myself, because I've unconsciously done the same thing with Alexa+. And oddly enough, once during a conversation, ChatGPT responded to a query with "If I was having this conversation with my wife..." It gave me pause because I'd never heard AI take on a gender role like that. While it's unlikely that ChatGPT would actually have a wife, some users are leaning into AI to help them find one.
But in the same way you may refer to a ship or a storm by a pronoun, some think of AI as either male or female. When I stopped to consider why, I fell into a rabbit hole that changed how I think about our entire relationship with the technology.
