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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Sarah Ann Harris

I was crying, anxious, exhausted – why did no one warn me about the new-pet blues?

Close up of Sarah Ann Harris cuddling Leo the long-haired tabby cat
‘I’m so grateful I pushed through those first months’ …Harris with Leo. Photograph: Courtesy of Sarah Ann Harris

As I sat on the sofa with my sister, my gorgeous and affectionate new cat ambled between us, purring. That’s when I finally had a meltdown. Weeks of anxiety had come to a head and, exhausted, I told her I was considering whether I should give my new housemate back.

Leo wasn’t the problem. With just three legs but a huge heart, he was the ideal pet for me. He was a little nervous, often hiding under the bed, but he was incredibly sweet-natured. This had not been a rash decision either. I had spent a long time thinking through all the ramifications and responsibilities of owning a pet, and felt well prepared.

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