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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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Polly Hudson

I know it’s taboo – but I’m a big fan of marriage

A happy groom piggybacking his bride in a vineyard during sunset.
‘The comfort that comes from knowing somebody has your back cannot be overestimated.’ Photograph: Posed by models; Klaus Vedfelt/Getty Images

It’s hard to pinpoint the moment something shifts from unfashionable to taboo, but it feels as if we’re there. With a “hot divorcee summer” on the horizon, more than half of single American women believing they’re happier than their spliced sisters, and nearly 70% of college-educated singles pessimistic about finding the right partner, what was once vanilla has become a baked alaska hot take. Even having a boyfriend has been deemed embarrassing, so steel yourselves: this is controversial. I write, dear reader, in praise of marriage.

Wait! Please! Put down your torches and pitchforks for a moment, and hear me out. I’m not advocating for any kind of tradwife nonsense, or unobtainable romcom fantasy. I’m talking normal, ordinary, messy, cosy, frustrating marriage.

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