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Helen Renshaw

"I forgave my son's killers and freed myself from the hatred that was poisoning me"

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An illustration shows a faceless woman offer comfort to a remorseful faceless man.

Losing a child is any parent's worst nightmare, and it's hard to imagine how you'd react in the circumstances.

After her son Chris was killed in 2001, Vi Donovan and her husband Ray made the decision to forgive the boys responsible, and now campaign for restorative justice around the UK. Here, she shares her emotional story with woman&home.

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