A 34-year-old woman said she is reconsidering her engagement after discovering her fiancé, 41, spent $20,000 on race boat parts instead of saving for their $5,000 wedding. She posted on Reddit that they had agreed to postpone their October elopement until next year to keep finances stable, but she said the purchase showed he was prioritizing his hobby over shared decisions.
The couple shares a 2-year-old child, and the man has two children from a prior relationship. She said all the children are close, and both parents treat them equally.
