A husband who killed his cancer-stricken wife in a desperate suicide pact has revealed how they shared a last drink together before going to the bottom of the garden to end their lives. Graham Mansfield, 73, walked free from court on Thursday after being convicted of the manslaughter of his 71-year-old wife Dyanne.
The pensioner slit the throat of his wife of 42-years in March last year but then unsuccessfully tried to kill himself. Mr Mansfield has now shared how his wife was told by doctors she had stage four lung cancer in October 2020, just weeks after they’d celebrated their ruby wedding.
When they returned home from the hospital the suicide pact was first raised. Mrs Mansfield asked her husband if he would be willing to kill her if things got ‘too bad’. He agreed ‘on one condition’.
In an interview with the Manchester Evening News at his home in Hale, Mr Mansfield said: “I said I would have to go with her. I said ‘I can’t live without you Dyanne’. In a funny way it gave me strength. I knew I was dying as well. I could focus on that.”
The couple met in their local pub in Woodhouse Park in Wythenshawe on New Year’s Eve in 1974 and were married six years later. They shared many interests, including walking, gardening and cycling, and it was, according to Mr Mansfield a loving and happy marriage.
He said: “Dyanne was a wonderful person. She was my whole world. We didn’t need anybody else. We just needed one another. We had a wonderful life together.”
But by March last year Mrs Mansfield was in unbearable pain and told her husband "I’ve had enough, I can’t take anymore." On March 22 they drove to Buxton and Macclesfield to find a "quiet and convenient" place to carry out the pact, but instead decided to use their garden the following day.
Mr Mansfield, a retired baggage handler at Manchester Airport, had already begun making preparations. He’d cancelled the papers, the milk delivery and the window cleaner, emptied the freezer and tidied the house.
Their last night together was spent "crying and telling each other how much we loved one another". At around 5pm the next day Mrs Mansfield had a glass of red wine, while Mr Mansfield had a can of lager and a whisky and lemonade.
It was cold so they both put their coats on and, after Mr Mansfield had locked up the house on Canterbury Road, made their way down to the bottom of the garden where two chairs were arranged next to each other.
He asked "Are you ready?", to which his wife replied "Yes, I won’t make a noise." He then walked behind the chair she was sat in and slit her throat with a Stanley knife.
Sat overlooking the same garden Mr Mansfield broke down in tears as he recalled that horrific moment.
He said: “It went against every fibre of my body. I ran round to the front of the chair. I said ‘What have I done?’ I sat next to her, put my arm round her and told I loved her.”
Mr Mansfield then tried to take his own life, but passed out before waking up in the kitchen the next morning. He called 999, was arrested and told police everything.
Mrs Mansfield, a retired import/export clerk, was found slumped in a chair at the bottom of their garden. A note left nearby addressed to police read: “We have decided to take our own lives.”
Mr Mansfield was eventually charged with murder, which he denied. At Manchester Crown Court the judge, Mr Justice Goose, told jurors that for Mr Mansfield to be convicted of murder, they had to be sure that he used unlawful violence which caused the death of his wife, and that he intended to kill her.
But the case could be reduced to manslaughter if they believed it was "more likely than not" that the suicide pact was a joint agreement between the couple, which Mrs Mansfield had voluntarily agreed to and that her husband had made a genuine attempt on his own life.
Jurors took 90 minutes to return the unanimous verdict following a four-day trial. The judge sentenced him to a two year suspended prison sentence after saying he was "entirely satisfied" that Mr Mansfield had acted out of "love and compassion" towards his spouse.
But Mr Mansfield, who admits to feeling "elation" when the sentence was passed, doesn’t believe the case should have got to court in the first place. He has called for euthanasia to be legalised in the UK and said if the Covid lockdown hadn’t stopped international travel they would have considered going to Dignitas in Switzerland.
Mr Mansfield said: “We have done nothing wrong. We didn’t need permission from other people. It was our decision. I killed her with love.
“If someone is terminally ill, if they’re in pain, what’s wrong with saying I don’t want to live any more? [Euthanasia] is a humane and sensible way to do things. The law meant we had to resort to this barbaric method.”
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