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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Lizzie Cernik

How we met: ‘My neighbours encouraged me to call and ask her out’

Deborah and Maria at a ball in the New Forest in 1995.
Deborah (left) and Maria at a ball in the New Forest in 1995. Photograph: Supplied image

After a divorce, Deborah found herself living in Portslade, Brighton, in the mid-1990s. “I had only recently come out,” she says. “I didn’t have many lesbian friends, so I’d started going out more to meet people.” She decided to give line dancing a whirl.

“I walked in and saw Maria. She was wearing a hat that looked like a flying cap and was with someone called Tanya, who I’d seen before.” She went over to say hello, but didn’t get the response she was expecting. “Tanya turned to Maria and said, ‘Do we know her?’ I was a bit crushed.”

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