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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Lizzie Cernik

How we met: ‘At our wedding, my dad bet the marriage wouldn’t last five years. That was 33 years ago’

How We Met couple Axel and Erika in their car in Sydney in 2006.
‘I don’t think we’ve ever had to work at our relationship’ … Axel and Erika in Sydney in 2006. Photograph: Supplied image

Erika grew up living all over Europe, but by 1989 she had moved to the UK to study. That summer, she travelled to Bonn in Germany, where she began looking for a summer job. “I went there because my mother was based in the city at the time,” she says. “The European Swimming Championships were on, so I rang up looking for a volunteer position.” She landed a coveted spot in the driving team, taking swimmers to various destinations across the city. “Someone had dropped out, and I got lucky. It was sponsored by car manufacturers, so I was excited about driving some nice cars.”

She went to the coordinators’ office to sign up, where Axel, another volunteer, took down her details. “I was studying sports science in Cologne at the time,” he says. “When I first saw Erika, we were both wearing pink jumpsuits – part of the driving uniform. She was this little redhead who seemed witty and easygoing. I immediately found her easy to talk to.”

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