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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Emine Saner

Drifting away from your friends? Here are 10 questions to bring you closer

Illustration of two runners acting matey while a man watches from a park bench, looking lonely
For men, especially, it’s rare to call out the importance of a friend, and yet it’s well worth doing. Illustration: Spencer Wilson/The Guardian

We know that good relationships are vital to health and happiness, but friendships can wither without time and attention. It’s normal for friendships to change, and a relationship cooling isn’t necessarily bad. “Sometimes we struggle to accept that a friendship has run its course for any number of reasons,” says Nina Badzin, host of the podcast Dear Nina: Conversations about Friendship. “Pivoting the relationship to a more casual connection honours the past friendship without forcing an affection and chemistry that cannot be forced.” So ask yourself: is this a friendship you really want to save?

If the answer is yes, here are some questions you could ask your friends to get your relationship back on track.

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