There are some men who do not enter your life to love you. They enter to consume you. Your softness. Your body. Your forgiveness. They will waste your time with a straight face. Enjoy the emotional benefits of having access to you without ever taking the risk of being answerable to you. They want the girlfriend experience with the freedom of a stranger. They want loyalty from you while keeping options lined up. And then when you finally react, suddenly you are “too much,” “too emotional,” “overthinking.” No. You are finally reading the room. A lot of women are not heartbroken because a man was complex. They are heartbroken because they kept trying to find depth in a man who acted like a baby in the first place.
