Parenting with a former partner is hard enough without money problems getting in the way. But what happens when those money problems aren’t just bad luck or misunderstandings—what if they’re intentional? If you find yourself constantly cleaning up after unexpected financial choices or struggling to keep things fair for your child, it might be time to ask a tough question: is your co-parent truly on your team? When your co-parent is financially undermining you, it doesn’t just hurt your wallet—it affects your child’s well-being and your peace of mind. Here are six red flags to watch for, and what to do if they show up.
