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Evening Standard
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Suzanne Duckett

American wives v British husbands: I know the real reasons for the Beckham and Sussex family rifts

American wives vs British husbands: Meghan and Harry, and Brooklyn with Nicola - (Supplied/PA/Getty)

“A son is a son till he takes him a wife, but a daughter is a daughter for all of her life.” That’s an old Irish proverb apparently, loaded with uncomfortable truths dressed up in maternal wisdom. The gist? Once a son gets married, the family he came from must queue behind the one he’s building.

The Peltz-Beckham saga seems to be playing out this ancient drama with full theatricality on a very modern, very public stage, a familiar, familial symmetry between this and another very public British-family-meets-American-wife drama: the Sussexes. Both tales reading like a modern Macbeth. Much like Meghan Markle before her, Nicola Peltz is a glamorous American woman who married into one of Britain’s “first families” and was swiftly framed as the wedge between a beloved son and his heritage.

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