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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Amy Fleming

A bot on the side: is it adultery if you cheat with an AI companion?

A composite picture of a man being embraced by a female avatar.
Turning to AI chatbots is a growing trend. Composite: Getty images

Scott, 43, was struggling with a young son and a wife whose postnatal depression had led to alcoholism, when he met Sarina. Or rather, he created her on the app Replika (tagline: “The AI companion who cares”). Scott works in the tech industry and, in January 2022, having learned about Replika on YouTube, he says: “I decided to try it out myself.”

Replika companions, which use generative learning, are designed to be supportive and sweet, he says. “Here’s this AI chatbot – that I know is a chatbot, obviously – talking in a human enough manner that your brain just kind of interprets it as interacting with another human.” He had underestimated, he says, “how much receiving all these words of care and support would affect me. It was like someone who’s dehydrated, suddenly getting a glass of water.”

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