
Infertility is an incredibly personal and painful experience—one that many people face silently. While friends and family often mean well, certain comments can unintentionally add to the emotional weight of the situation. Sensitivity, empathy, and awareness matter more than advice or curiosity. Understanding the things you should never say to a couple that can’t have kids can help preserve relationships and show genuine compassion. Here are nine phrases to avoid—and why silence or support often speaks louder.