For many families, naming the oldest child as the executor of a will feels like the natural choice. It’s often based on tradition, trust, or the assumption that the eldest is the most responsible. But estate planning experts say that instinct can backfire if you don’t fully understand what the role requires. An executor of a will isn’t just an honorary title. It’s a demanding legal and financial job that can last months or even years.
The person you choose must manage assets, handle court filings, pay debts, and distribute property while navigating family dynamics. That’s why relying on birth order instead of qualifications can create serious problems for your estate and your family. Here are seven reasons that your first child may not be the best choice.
