You know how every family has a few skeletons in the closet? Well, what if those skeletons involve a pre-wedding honeymoon with your sister and your fiancé? That’s when things get messy—like, Jerry Springer meets soap opera level messy. Just imagine you’re planning your dream wedding, only to discover that your sister decided to get cozy with your groom before the big day. She was probably just trying to warm up his cold feet, right?
Well, that’s exactly what went down for one Redditor, who found herself not only without a fiancé but also down one bridesmaid, all just months before she was supposed to say “I do.”
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Bride-to-be finds out her fiancé cheated on her with her sister just months before the wedding, ruins her sister’s garden and throws his things in the trash
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The woman’s dad revealed the affair, saying the mom knew about it but kept it hidden from her
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The woman ruined her sister’s dog memorial garden and cut all contact with her, the fiancé and her mom after they betrayed her
Our OP (original poster) is a 30-year-old woman who thought she had it all figured out. She had the high school sweetheart, the sister who was basically her best friend, and a wedding day that was supposed to be straight out of a fairytale. But, because life loves to throw curveballs, she got hit with one that could knock anyone flat.
Her dad dropped the bombshell that her darling sister, the same one meant to be a bridesmaid, had been getting a little too friendly with her fiancé. And to add a cherry on top of this betrayal sundae, their mom knew about the whole sordid affair but kept her lips zipped because her other daughter begged her to stay out of it. Now, if that’s not a recipe for the world’s most awkward family dinners, what is?
So, what’s a bride to do in the face of such ultimate betrayal? Well, our OP didn’t waste any time crying into her wedding cake samples. Nope, she booted that cheating fiancé out on his sorry behind, chucked his stuff where it belongs, right in the trash, and turned her attention to the sister who crossed every imaginable line.
Now, here’s where things get a bit juicy. The sister, bless her heart, is really into gardening. After her dog passed away, she even planted a sweet little memorial garden in his honor. Cute, right? Well, OP wasn’t in the mood for cute. Fueled by a mix of fury and heartbreak, she paid her sis a visit, and let’s just say things got a little heated.
Words were exchanged, voices were raised, and in the heat of the moment, the OP decided to do some impromptu landscaping. By that, we mean she stomped right through her sister’s beloved garden, squashing a few flowers like they were her own crushed dreams.
Petty? Maybe. But can you really blame her? The sister’s lame excuse was that “it just happened,” like she accidentally tripped and fell into bed with her sister’s fiancé. Yes, that happens every day, right?
After delivering a solid verbal smackdown, the OP told her sister to lose her number, and she cut ties with her mom too—because if mom couldn’t even have her back in a situation like this, what’s the point? As for the ex-fiancé, he’s been warned that if he so much as breathes in her direction, the police will be on him faster than he can say, “I’m sorry.” And honestly, good riddance!
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Was the garden-stomping over-the-top? Maybe just a tad. But compared to what the sister pulled, it’s practically mild. And watching her sister bawl over some trampled flowers? Yeah, that was probably the satisfying cherry on top for the OP. Note to self: never, ever mess with a woman on the verge of her wedding.
Dealing with betrayal from a family member is hard enough, but when a trio of fiancé, sister, and mom hits you all at once? That’s one next-level emotional sucker punch.
The first step in bouncing back is letting yourself grieve. This kind of betrayal? It’s a loss, no question. But here’s the thing—healing comes from within. Focus on your own well-being, lean on the folks who actually have your back, and don’t be shy about setting some serious boundaries to keep your peace intact.
Experts say that with time, forgiveness is less about letting people off the hook and more about freeing yourself from the burden of bitterness. Sure, it’s okay to feel hurt, but don’t let it define your future. And remember, forgiving doesn’t mean you have to invite those who wronged you back into your life—especially not a two-timing fiancé. Betrayal from a family member is tough enough, but infidelity? That’s a whole different monster.
To dive deeper into this topic, Bored Panda reached out to Dr. Jane Greer, a marriage and family therapist and author of the book Am I Lying to Myself?: How To Overcome Denial and See the Truth. According to Dr. Greer, when one partner experiences betrayal, they’re often overwhelmed by a whirlwind of emotions—anger, pain, and a deep sense of being wronged.
In these moments, partners need to decide whether they want to try to repair the relationship or call it quits. This decision isn’t easy, and it means weighing whether it’s worth addressing the betrayal, standing by their partner, and facing the challenges ahead.
We asked Dr. Greer if it’s possible to mend a relationship after such a betrayal. She explained that for any chance of moving forward, the couple needs to act as a team. If the betrayed partner chooses to stay, both need to be on the same page about the emotional and financial commitments involved.
“In such cases, it’s crucial for the betrayer to acknowledge the impact of their actions and show a genuine willingness to support the betrayed partner. This commitment can be a step toward taking responsibility and might reduce the intensity of the betrayed partner’s desire for vengeance,” Dr. Greer said.
So, what’s your take on this wild tale of family drama? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
People in the comments are outraged by what happened to the woman, saying she should expose the affair to the world
